Ladies go home, their troops join the garrison, they sell all their items. And their father yells at them for being insolent. He will be extra mad if they were out stealing mods. Then they get sent to reform school. You have to imagine the last two parts. This is not a statement about our modern times and gender rights. Support Dylan!
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Changelogs
Version 3.0.7
Betting spouse dialogue is toggled off by default now.
Had to add another dialogue when the board game is over for when the winner of the spouse bet owns the keep you are playing in.
Version 3.0.6
Requested by a YouTube subscriber (subscribe to my youtube now to keep up), now you can bet your spouse in a board game against another lord.
Version 3.0.5
Player clan heroes no longer get clothing changes or sent home, this mod should not be doing anything with heroes in your clan as this was something I overlooked. Hopefully you can load a save before they lost their equipment or you could use my campaign helper mod to get their equipment back.
Version 3.0.4
Updated Battanian and Sturgian sandwich making uniforms so the men look beautiful while making me sandwiches!! Rodarac is mine guys, don't touch him!! Added the corset dress as an option for vlandian men that want to transition into a beautiful butterfly. Hands off mod thief! Meeeow!
Version 3.0.3
Equipment now resets as soon as a female qualifies to lead again. A woman sent home will only lead a party once the AI creates a party for her. The AI is always making checks to form parties so once the AI needs another party she will likely be selected.
Next update I plan to select nicer dresses for females sent home. The sturgian women are wearing a very bad choice on my part. >_<
Version 3.0.2
Added another dead hero check to assigning governors.
Governors will not be assigned for the player clan, only NPCs.
Version 3.0.0
Fixed a massive amount of bugs and it brings me great joy to know the stolen version still has these bugs lmao! I checked my stolen code!! :D Realistic Genders on Steam might as well be deleted it will ruin your campaign! He even wrote the same bugs as me! :D
Added Bud Light mode in support of our LGBT brothers and sisters.
Version 2.0.1
Shortened thief warning message.
Version 1.7.4
On session launch (first time you load your game or start a new game), females that do not qualify to lead parties will be removed from the tournament rankings, assuming they would have never been competing. Now compatible with Tournament of Champions.
Version 1.7.3
Fixed male companions getting put through the female checks when selecting fighters for the tournament. This is any hero that is in a party but not a leader.
Version 1.7.2
Heroes that are members of parties in a settlement will now have to satisfy the conditions for females to lead when the tournament selects participants. Pregnant companions for example, will no longer be selected to join tournaments. Sick of watching my wife get her face caved in while pregnant with my son! ;P
Version 1.7.1
Now resetting battle equipment when ladies are allowed to lead again (pregnancy ended, they have the skills, settings changes, etc). Any ladies that had to stop leading and then allowed to lead again are most likely running around in dresses. This will correct those ladies and heroes going forward with their equipment described in lords.xml or if nothing found there, then the mod can find a similar hero to copy equipment from.
Version 1.6.1
Fixed women not in parties and in a settlement from not being checked if they qualify to participate when the game selects tournament participants.
Completed localization support.
Version 1.4.1
fixed crash on app start.
Version 1.3.0
Compiled for 1.6.3
Version 1.2.7
Intro text kept displaying so I had to fix that again.
Version 1.2.6
Added localization Support.
Fixed intro message so it is only displayed once.
Version 1.2.5
Fixed parties with their AI disabled from previous version not being able to get home which also caused message spam.
Version 1.2.4
Now destroying parties of females once they get home. Latest patch should prevent them from creating new parties now. Now they won't be sitting in a settlement recruiting.
Now selling lady's equipped gear when their party disbands and putting them in a dress.
Version 1.2.3
Fixed bug in latest patch that was also checking if men qualify.
Version 1.2.2
Patched GetBestAvailableCommander method to prevent selecting women that don't qualify.
Version 1.2.1
Tournament participants will now only select men or qualified women based on your settings.
Version 1.2.0
Compiled for 1.6.1
Version 1.1.1
Added new settings to allow female rulers and clan leaders to lead armies regardless of the other settings.
Version 1.1.0
1.5.9 stable + mcm 4.2.0+
Version 1.0.6
Fixed message toggle in the MCM.
Version 1.0.5
Using a much better method to disable female led parties. Now their party AI is disabled instead of their party being destroyed which will just keep them in the town unable to move. This will prevent the game constantly recreating the party and should be more reliable way to handle them. Sorry for spamming updates, this one i thought of as I was playing and I already uploaded 1.0.4 :/
Version 1.0.4
Added a function to bring up a dialog showing all kingdom's lord count and troop count. If you think the mod is handicapping kingdoms you can ease the skill level needed then and see if it helps. Press Ctrl + Z on the map screen to use this.
Stopped message spam when the mod needed to fix a female party again. The game is having them form parties so my mod is constantly watching for this. In the future I may try to figure out how to patch this behavior out of the game but the current method with no patch works fine too. Doesn't cause lag or anything.
Fixed a crash when a town had no garrison.
Now the culture and skill settings work together. So they must meet the culture requirement and the skill requirment. So now factions like the empire, for example, you could set it up so now it doesn't matter how good a leader she would be, she can't lead unless you allow her culture to allow women.
Added settings for each skill category and you can require females meet all requirements or just one of them.
Fixed it so pregnant women will always go home and disband regardless of culture and skill. One they are not pregnant, if they qualify they will be able to lead again.
Fixed some bugs when assigning governors.
New setting which allows the mod to assign females to governor roles in towns they are not currently at. The script will just teleport them to the town.
Version 1.0.3
Fixed a bug that caused women sent home to be added to the garrison roster. When the script loads it will fix all garrisons by removing any heroes placed in garrisons.
Prevented respawned female lord parties from selling the starting grain over and over.
Version 1.0.2
Added tactics check to the skill check. Women with good tactical skill will be allowed to lead armies if they have the skill required.
Updated default skill setting to 150. 50 was too low imo.
Once daily the mod will check each clan's fiefs and if one does not have a governor then this mod will choose the oldest female from the clan located in that settlement to be governor. It was brought to my attention females mainly managed the fief while the husband was off fighting. Women were involved in governance and decision making for their husbands. This will only happen if the town has no governor yet.
Optimized the code a little.
Version 1.0.1
Fixed bug, accidently switched the buyer and seller when parties sell off their items. I guess they made a donation to the town. If you have a save still before using this mod you may want to go back to it or else some npcs will lose some gold... not a big deal.
Added mod option to set a skill value where if a woman has this skill in a weapon skill or leadership skill she will be allowed to lead. She would have gained her troops respect.
Added options to allow female leaders for different cultures.
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It's a woman's world!!! 3.0.0 UPDATE TONS OF BUG FIXES!!!! NEW FEATURES!!! AND BUD LIGHT AND DYLAN YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!
Why Bud Light Cheyron?
Bud Light Mode = Send men home, where they will put on a dress and look pretty, for my fascista fans :D, only women can lead, no exceptions, hope you have a mod that adds female lords :D
When this mod loads you will see a message notifying you the men of Calradia are fed up. My mod will instruct all lord parties led by females to go to their home settlement where once they arrive they will send all their troops into the garrison and sell all their items to the trader (reform school message). My mod will constantly monitor for females leading parties. They will only be allowed to lead parties if they qualify.
Which Women qualify to lead parties?
Is she pregnant? Yes = She cannot lead and must go home. No = Go to step 2.
Is she a clan leader? Yes = Go to step 3. No = Go to step 4.
Is clan leader override enabled in the settings? Yes = She can lead! 3. No = Go to step 4.
Is she a kingdom ruler? Yes = Go to step 5. No = Go to step 6.
Is ruler override enabled in the settings? Yes = She can lead! 3. No = Go to step 6.
Does her culture allow women to lead based on your settings? Yes = Go to step 7. No = Go to step 8.
Does she pass the skills check based on your settings? Yes = She can lead! No = Go to step 8.
Does she have no father or is her father dead?? Yes = Go to step 9. No = She can not lead.
Does she have no spouse, her spouse is dead, or her spouse is a female?? Yes = Go to step 10. No = She can not lead.
Does she have no male siblings that are over 16? Yes = She can lead! No = She can not lead.
If these requirements are not met then my mod will instruct them to go home! This does not apply to the player playing as a female. You can install and uninstall this at any point in your campaign.
DON'T STEAL MY MOD!! IT IS NOW GOING TO INCLUDE NEW FEATURES REQUESTED BY THE COMMUNITY MAKING THIS THE SUPERIOR VERSION OF REALISTIC GENDERS brought to you by Bud Light!! HAVE FUN!!!
Stolen Mod: https://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=2898072717 <--- THIEF TRASH, IT IS THE TRUTH THE THIEF TRASH HAS THE BUGGED VERSION SO DON'T DOWNLOAD THE TRASH VERSION OFF STEAM!!! IT WILL BREAK YOUR GAME, I KNOW BECAUSE I WROTE THE BUGS STILL IN THE STOLEN VERSION, I JUST FIXED THEM YESTERDAY!! THE INCOMPETENT THIEF IS NOW STUCK WITH THEM!!!